Just like most things in our society, we’ve structured the employment process around neurotypical social skills. Unfortunately, autistic social skills do not align with these expectations. It’s disheartening to read in Forbes that “a staggering 50-75% of the 5.6 million autistic adults in the U.S. are unemployed or underemployed.” As an autistic, I know howContinueContinue reading “Autistic Employees and Workplace Social Skills”
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Why Don’t They Believe I’m Autistic?
My gynecologist said it first. But she was not the last. Everyone I discuss my diagnosis with has a similar response: “You don’t look autistic.” What do people expect to see when they look at an autistic person? Autism is so integral to who I am that their disbelief is hurtful. I was diagnosed withContinueContinue reading “Why Don’t They Believe I’m Autistic?”
What’s In a Name? Asperger’s vs. Autism
Humans have fluid identities. The names or labels we use influence how we see ourselves and our place in the world. We build our experiences, emotions, and communities around those labels. As new labels are added to our lives, we reevaluate our identities to incorporate our new understanding. This process happens after an autism spectrumContinueContinue reading “What’s In a Name? Asperger’s vs. Autism”
Self-Advocacy is an Invaluable Tool in the Workplace
Many late diagnosed Aspie women have come to believe the negative views of others and internalized it. We’ve grown up plagued by rejection. To help us pick up on the nuances of conversation and relationships, we’ve developed mental scripts: a set of “how to be normal” instructions that we’ve accumulated throughout our lives. ThisContinueContinue reading “Self-Advocacy is an Invaluable Tool in the Workplace”
Friendships with Aspies are Different
Jane texted back and declined my lunch invitation because she would be out of town again. Following other weekend options, she claimed she would be out of town every weekend for the next month. Funny, considering that she was out of town the last three times, I asked her to meet up with me. Once IContinueContinue reading “Friendships with Aspies are Different”